I don’t know how some people can sleep at night. No conscience to keep them awake I suppose. So sorry for your bad experiences.
I know you likely wouldn’t think of Wichita, Kansas as a great spot for a film festival but seriously, Tallgrass Film Festival is the real deal. The festival organizers treat the filmmakers like royalty, tons of activities for filmmakers and fans, great parties, multiple screening venues in a central location. My husband and I use vacation days, buy passes and wear ourselves out for 5 days every October. Check it out. http://tallgrassfilmfest.com/
Best of luck to you in your future film projects!