I’m reading this while sitting in a hospital waiting room as my Mom gets a pacemaker. After making sure she’s fine, I’ll drive 30 minutes to take care of her pets then return home to make sure my cat is recovering alright from pancreatitis. Suffice it to say that I can relate to your message and I will do my best to not feel guilty about treating myself to dinner out this evening. Thanks for reminding me of the importance of caring for oneself.